Listen! Your time is passing. I am not sure on what profession you are but if you observe your whole day to day…life…you will see…your days are passing so quickly, that your subconscious mind can’t even realize. A day before you were thinking of accomplishing big goals and with a blink of an eye, your next day starts and you realize you are in the same place where you started.

You are imagining yourself living your dream life, then out of a sudden your eyes open and you realize you are in a locked room with darkness all around and there’s no way out. Then at your job you meet people who you don’t even know. They take precious time of your life, they use your emotions, and eventually leave you in some corner with dying dreams and emotions.

You don’t even realize when you become a cog in the wheel. You’ve been dying in that pit for years and how hilarious it is you…you know that! And still you are not taking any action. Why are you not taking any action? What about your dreams? Tony robins once said…”if you’re in your ahead…you are fucking dead”. It is the only life you have my friend…live it as if it is your last day on earth.

Fuck people! They are not gonna bury your dying self…they will be just watching…while your tears rolling down your face….that how close you were to your dream…but you couldn’t touch it because you were so afraid of other’s opinions and losing your past self.

Did you even try to hear the voice of your future self?

Your new self kept on banging your door but you didn’t open the door. This regret will haunt you forever my friend. No matter how weak you are…how lost you are…find a light of hope within you…take massive action…use your divine voice….because this earth itself is gonna be destroyed one day…so you’re just a human…with so much buried emotions and aspirations. Give yourself a chance.

Believe me nobody gives a shit about you, they’re all lost in the deep oceans of their crippling thoughts…….living someone else’s life. Your whole world is dying inside you….feed it with power…feed it with hope…feed it with undying uplifting emotions…and never giving up attitude.

You’re already naked walking on the road…so use the time you have on this planet…leave everyone that stop you from reaching where you want to go…live in imaginations…it does become reality…don’t believe in someone’s lie…they’re showing their true nature…….but if you remain honest with yourself, the whole cosmos will turn the whole world in your favor, and will give your life a pragmatism touch with unstoppable abundance.

This is what happens when you begin to embrace the power of observation.

1) You no longer be you

When you observe the whole essence of you, then you no longer remain the same. You begin to make a major shift in your life. Your word of choice doesn’t remain the same. You begin to act differently. Your life choices, standards, and perspective don’t remain the same. Your own identity, who you used to think what it was, completely becomes a different identity. You begin to make a distance from the places that can trigger your past self-limiting beliefs. You start to approach your life like a newborn child who looks at the world from an entirely different perspective. 

Wayne Dyer once said, “change the way you look at things, and things you look at change” He was right with his inspiring words. If you won’t change the way you look at the world…the way you’ve been seeing it for years, then you will remain the same you…who will never forgive you for your sins. But, if you take a leap of faith, and become a beacon of hope for your future self, then he or she will salute you when you will be taking the last breaths of your life.

2) You become mindful of your intrusive thoughts

The moment a negative thought comes into your mind (Negative thoughts…such as…. for ex: you remember past events where people used to downgrade your self-worth, they judged you for no reason, said inappropriate words to destroy your self-esteem…how they made you feel as you of no worth…how they made you feel inferior and insecure in your own skin…their voice still hurt you…their face keep on restricting you from unleashing what you are in the essence of your core).

So, the moment a negative thought comes into your mind……………..instantly shift that negative thought to the core essence of who you want to be…let your higher intelligence intertwine with your future self….let your divine self… be your guiding light to welcome unlimited positivity in your life. 

3) You begin to trust yourself

When you observe your inner self, and how it is reacting in different situations, then you begin to exclude external validation from your inner reality. You start to trust your instincts and the guiding force to illuminate your path. You stop seeking approval from others of how you should feel, and how you should live your life. You begin to understand that your instincts and your conscience aren’t your enemy, they’re your best path illuminators.

You look at each failure as an opportunity to remake your current self. It is just like believing in yourself when no one’s willing to. So, never be afraid to trust your inner guidance, it is the only supporter you may ever get in your life.

4) You stop limiting yourself

One of the biggest truths of our lives is that our time here…..on earth is limited. And we’ve already spent half of our lives in overthinking, comparisons, what if fears and what not? Somewhere deep down we know something is missing……something that needs to come out….otherwise it will burn us from inside. It is kind of a calling…that we are not probably ready for yet…because it asks something bigger than our current self. Most of us are puzzled in our day to day lives. Some running to feed their kids, some running for jobs, and some dying due to inferiority complex issues that they’re not adequate enough. 

You get stuck in an inescapable loop

This is a cycle that keeps on repeating again and again. Because the creator left us all alone after throwing us on this blue planet. He didn’t even care to look back once before leaving us all alone. He gave us knowledge about life…but not about death!!! What happens after death? Who cares!!! I know. Let’s watch some reels on FB or YT, then go back to sleep. Easy going life…right? 

But, what if you don’t want this kind of life? You don’t want to die like a mediocre? Don’t you want $100,000 in your bank account? Can you make it possible in a year? Do you have that kind of potential? What will you do if you genuinely want that much amount of money? It scares the shit out of us…when we think about this much money. Isn’t it? Because, we haven’t thought like this ever before. Because…it seems impossible. And the reason that it seems impossible lies in our lower thinking attitude.

We aren’t willing to think big…we have made ourselves believe…that you deserve less…because you just can’t get that MUCH BIG AMOUNT…common!!.look at yourself in the mirror…you look so funny…( Negative inner voice ). 

But if you look at life from a different angle, when you embrace the power of observation, you’ll realize that everything within others’ reach is within your reach too. It is just a matter of how you look at life…your perceptions, beliefs, values and beyond that. Jack Canfield, America’s number 1 life coach and motivational speaker used law of attraction to manifest his first $100000 in a year. So, in order to make a major shift in your life, you have to change everything that is stopping you from achieving what you desperately want to achieve. 

You are the only one who is stopping yourself…let me repeat……..you are the only one who is stopping yourself….no one else. 

You know what you need to do to get to that level…whether it is touching a $100,000 mark or getting a better life.  You know what resources you need, who you have to connect with, what you have to become to get to that level, what circle you may need to fulfill your inner wishes and beyond that. You know ….everything!! Don’t you? It all takes that single step forward…that first step…towards the unknown…and it is the hardest one..!!! 

Last but not the least…this earth is gonna end one day..…..so living a lavish lifestyle……is better than to remain mediocre…..so make effort…see…how far you can go………..at least you will land somewhere better than…where you are today!!!

When we reach to the age of adulthood, there are lot of questions that ignites the fire of curiosity within us. The one question that keep on knocking our subconscious window is “What the heck am I doing here on the blue orb”, “Who the F…ck am I”, and “Why I’m doing what I’m doing”, and beyond that. These are just small particles of our endless curiosity, covered with a little drop of our higher consciousness, and what we are desperately trying to unravel.

When you become an adult, you leave a timid part of yourself who used to be afraid of himself, people walking around or simply watching someone singing on the stage. That’s a fear of your previous version, “your past self”. But, as you move on to your adult age, you begin to comprehend your existence, what ignites the unshakable confidence within you and what motivates you to keep going despite what life throws at you.

You begin to realize that your life matters and even people’s opinion no longer matter either. It has also been seen that at the age of 34 to 35, most adults become mature and begin to make a balance in between the pragmatic and imaginative world. And that’s where they begin to generate the higher level of confidence, because they become aware of who they are, and why they’re not supposed to be worried of what others think about them, why compassion is better than yelling at someone, why comparison with others is dangerous and what not?

How To Build An Unshakable Confidence As An Adult?

1) Be Vulnerable To The World

When you show your weaknesses to the world you get one step closer to your future self. It is always the first step that is the hardest, because it leads you to show your vulnerability and what you most afraid of. Showing your true self requires courage, and courage comes when you allow yourself to be exposed to others, despite the risks of being hurt or judged. Courage comes when you disapprove other’s domination and live your life on your own terms. So, never shy away from showing your vulnerable side, as it will help you become stronger and wiser as your life goes on.

2) Ignite Your Passion

In order to give this life a meaning you must know how your inner self works and what makes it feel alive and fulfilled. 9 to 5 job can give you pay check to pay check life, but it can’t amplify your freedom but will restrict it in return. So, better find a way to make a balance in between what you love and what is required for survival. Don’t just remain stuck in the pit or working for someone else, just give your heart a chance. Make a routine where you can do things that excite you, inspires you, and gives your life a meaning to live this life one more day. Your voice is one of the most magical things you can count on, so stop burying it underground. Give it wings, and you’ll see how it increases your confidence in no time.

3) Make A Blueprint Of Where You Are And Where You Want To Go

If you genuinely want to change your life, then your path won’t be easier. It all depends on what path you’ve chosen, and what it will take to become reality. If you want to become an actor, then you won’t become it overnight. It requires deep self-introspection about your motivation, your subconscious desires, who you are as a person right now, and beyond that. Same applies to other professions as well.

So, in the end it is up to you how serious, relentless, determined and focused you are for your pursuits. Like we count numbers 1, 2, 3, similarly your path has numbers too, you can’t reach your destination from point A to point Z. You have to step on each alphabet to reach to point Z. Same works with life. You must understand the step-by-step process to make a wish into a reality. Do remember that dreams do happen, but all it takes the guts to make it real.

How can we forget about the “Walt Disney” manifestation? He was one of those people who gave his imagination wings, and brought imaginative characters into the world such as Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck.

Other most inspiring person is the “Eminem“. He is one of the greatest rappers in the world right now. His journey wasn’t that great. He lived in poverty during childhood days, and had allegations of abuse. He began his carrier when he was just 14 years old, and established himself as a leading Detroit’s battle rap scene at different clubs. There used to happen open mic contests where he would rap on Saturdays. He also ended up getting into drug addiction, but he got out of it with rehab services. After that he didn’t stop himself, and won dozens of awards for best rap album “The Slim Shady LP”, “8 Mile” and more. Apart from that, he has won 155 Grammy awards and has made a name in the rap industry. There are other numerous examples that inspires us, and make us push our limits, and make impossible possible.

4) You Have Less Time On Earth

You’ve got limited time on this planet like any other human being. So, stop staying stuck in your head. Tony Robins once said “if you’re in your head,  you’re fuck..ing dead”. And there’s a lot of truth in it. Most people live their whole life in a hope that their day will come despite knowing there isn’t any action involved in it. How hilarious it is! They know what they need to do, but they resist and allow their emotions cloud their judgement. They can go beyond their limit, but they prefer to stick around to the same routine until they get fed up of it and run for a freedom.

What you are afraid of? Are you afraid of people’s eyes, their opinions, their rich lifestyle or you’re broke and got nothing to take pride of? Ask yourself, do you really need some random individual advice to live your life? That other individual is counting his own life years like these galaxies, moons, planets, stars and what not. You’re afraid only, because you simply don’t know “Who You Are”. It is that simple!

The day you become aware of the power that resides within you, you no longer need other’s approval of how you should live your life, how big your dreams should be, and what you should wear, etc, etc. Your confidence lies in your unawareness of who you are. Watch yourself every day, talk to yourself, make journals, read self-development books, watch podcasts, follow people that inspires you, focus on your fitness and there are numerous things that you must do to keep yourself alive and fulfilled. It is just like…igniting the light within the dark eternity and coming out of it confidently without breaking.

Final Note!

Building confidence isn’t a god gifted trait, it is a learnable skill. You can become confident by knowing how you operate while being alone and while in the public. When you begin to explore the deepest part of your inner corners, you will realize you have amazing traits in you that you never knew you had. It all begins with a single step of knowing what is unknown to you, and gradually everything comes into play to get you there where you’re destined to be.

Figuring out what you want in life isn’t like doing something one day and forgetting about it the next. It’s a journey spanning months, years, or even decades to find what perfectly aligns with your subconscious desires or inner self. It is something that challenges you everyday, pushes your limits and changes your life in and out. And guess what, finding that thing is hell of a ride. Because when we don’t know what we want, it is easy to get trapped in a never ending maze of life – leading us to an unknown path that goes nowhere. And overtime this leads to anxiety, stress and depression – making us feel lost and aggravated.

Knowing what you genuinely want in your life is crucial as it gives you a sense of purpose, freedom, and a never ending urge to become better than before. Here are some incredible ways to find what you want in life and who you want to be.

6 Ways To Figure Out What You Want In Life

1) Practice Self-Reflection 

In order to identify what you truly want in your life is to first understand how your inner self works. Because your inner self is a reflection of your desires, dreams, and whatever you want to manifest into the outer world. Even in recent study, it is stated that self-reflection plays a significant role in forming the self-concept. And that self-concept forms when you understand yourself in and out, your goals, dreams, and your life’s purpose. 

There is a saying, “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” When you know yourself deeply, you become better at taking life’s decisions, stay calm when life tests your limits, and remain resilient in the face of adversity.

2) Explore Different Options

Another possible way to find your passion or life’s purpose is by exploring and experimenting with different options. Sometimes at the early stages of our lives it becomes nearly impossible to find the right career or profession for us. However, as the time goes by—when we explore all possible options—eventually all our learnings and experiences perfectly synchronize with what we truly want in our lives, and help us live a fulfilled and prosperous life.

For instance: You’re working in some xyz organization, and spending 8 to 9 hours everyday in the office, and following the same pattern everyday. However, one day you realize that this is not what inspires you or motivates you from the core of your heart. 

So, you start focussing on other things apart from your daily tasks. You joined singing classes, dance classes, started your own YouTube channel and explored every possible venture to understand what truly satisfies your inner child.

With the above example we can understand that finding what you want in your life isn’t a straight line concept—it is a spiral one, which means you’ve to go through different doors in order to find the right one that actually satisfies your inner soul and the hunger for life.

3) Take Action – Time Waits For No One

Comfort is a drug that you give to yourself to forget your purpose, your dreams, and what you genuinely crave out of your life. Sitting still where you don’t belong may give you temporary gratification for a while, but will steal every ounce of happiness in the long run, and put you in a labyrinth with no escape. Though, when you choose action over stagnation, you begin to see more possibilities for growth than limitations.

Remember that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, but in order to reach that tunnel you’ve to overcome your procrastination habit, embrace new opportunities and take action on a daily basis—no matter how small. The key to abundant and prosperous life doesn’t lie in waiting for the right moment, it is living in the here and now.

4) Listen To Your Intuition

No one can understand you better than you yourself. If you find yourself trapped in a constant loop of negativity, overwhelmed by fears, self-doubt, mood swings, and uncontrollable emotions, then instead of seeking answers outside of yourself—look within. Because, nothing can manifest externally without the consent of your inner self. If you believe you’re weak, then indeed, you are; if you believe you’re strong, then yes, you are. 

Remember, you are the one who is in control of your life, not others. When you trust your intuition or simply surrender to your higher self, you form a direct connection with the universe that understands your feelings, emotions, aspirations, and what you truly want out of your life. It uplifts you by shifting your focus from “I can’t do it” to “Yes, I can”, from “I am weak” to “I am strong”, and beyond. Remember, the universe never gives you something you can’t handle, so trust the process, and believe that everything happens for a reason.

5) Visualize What You Want To Manifest

Visualising is a great technique to turn your thoughts into action. Even famous actors like Will Smith, Muhammad Ali, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jim Carey and Denzel Washington and many more use the power of visualization daily to fulfill their dreams. So, If you don’t want to stay stuck where you’re right now, then embrace visualization in your life. It is a source to your inner fulfillment with a little pinch of consistency and action. 

6) Seek Inspiration

If you see someone who is doing great in their life, then seek inspiration from them. Learn about their biographies, interests, passions, goals, and dreams, whatever it is that excites them and keeps their enthusiasm alive. 

Observe their walking style, way of talking, behaviour, books they read, food they eat, places they visit, and more. Just be mindful not to become a complete imitation of them; instead, select what resonates with you to shape your own identity and future.

Remember, when you’re aiming for a long shot or dreaming big, your starting frequencyᅳwhat you want to achieve or becomeᅳmust align with your end frequencyᅳwhere you want to be or who you want to become. 

If you have an idol like Jim Carrey, Shah Rukh Khan, Michael Jordan, Oprah Winfrey and want to be like them, then you know from within what you’re talking about and what price you’ve to pay to get to that level. 

Listen, it’s great to imagine and keep on daydreaming about doing great things in life, but the reality is a whole lot different than what you imagine or dream of. It is a path with no guarantee of success, and failures will curse your existence every step of the way. But if you’re determined to uncover the true essence of your life and willing to do everything to change your life’s circumstances —unfettered by the opinions of others—then the day is not far when you will be there where you want to be. But do remember, nothing comes free; you have got to pay the price for it.

Every individual you know as a great person has paid the price to reach that level.

1. Michael Jordan, a renowned basketball player missed more than 9000 shots in his career, lost almost more than 300 games, and tasted back-to-back failures but ultimately succeeded.

2. Another individual who is known for his brilliant comedy is Jim Carry. He has shown people that no matter what happens in your life, you should always aim high and stay resilient in the face of challenges. A long back before getting into the acting field, he discovered that he had dyslexia, which made him unable to read letters, interpret words, symbols, etc. He also had to go through a phase of anxiety and depression and live in a van for the first few months in Toronto before beginning his journey as a stand-up comedian. Despite going through numerous hurdles, he remained strong and grounded and never gave up on his dreams.

With this we can understand that whatever you wish for or want to achieve in your life, you’ve to have the mindset like that with unwavering focus and unshakable belief in yourself.